
HELP & SUPPORT
What can I help you with?
It's impossible to list all the areas in which I provide support, so here are some examples of the types of problems I have helped people to overcome and deal with more effectively.

COMMON QUESTIONS & PROBLEMS I CAN HELP WITH
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Clarity
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How do I know if I'm trans?
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This is one of the most frequently asked questions that I can help you with.
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I don't know what I want or how I feel and I'm not sure what to do.
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Exploring gender identity is complex and can cause great anxiety, talking to someone who understands really helps.
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I can't see a way forward and feel stuck
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Sometimes we don't know where to start and need a bit of support and guidance
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Confidence
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Passing - Do you worry about "passing" or being "clocked"?
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constantly worrying whether you pass or not and the fear of being clocked can seriously affect your quality of life. I can work through this with you to build confidence and enable you to walk down the street with your head held high.
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Using gendered toilets & facilities
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One of the biggest fears as a trans person is taking that first step into a gendered space in your acquired gender. Confidence is a critical part of this process.
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Leaving the house
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Leaving the safety of your own home when experimenting with different clothing or gender presentation is a big deal. Even parents or allies of trans people can feel self-conscious and benefit from coaching support.
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Support
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Coming Out
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How do I tell my spouse or partner and children?
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What if I'm rejected by my family and friends?
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What else can coaching help me with?
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Living a happy and fulfilled life as a trans person
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Coping strategies & Personal safety
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Bullying at school or in the workplace, verbal & physical abuse, anxiety
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Isolation - finding friends and creating a social life
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Mental health
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Coping with long GIC waiting lists
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Legal rights & protections
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